Research shows the happiest couples engage in fun, meaningful conversation every day. But how are you supposed to think of interesting questions to ask each other when you're both exhausted by work, kids, and trying to keep your house from becoming a Marie Kondo cry for help?
These couple conversation starters will help you reconnect with your partner in just a couple minutes a day – and make your relationship stronger than ever.
These questions for couples are inspired by the latest research on how you can make your relationship last. And not just “last” but how you can make your relationship thrive. For example:
...and more. According to the experts who study the most successful relationships, these are the best questions to ask your partner every day if you want a strong, happy marriage.
Here are a few situations where you can use these couple conversation starters to reconnect, even when you're stressed or tired:
Hi, I'm Kelly. I'm the mom behind the web site Happy You, Happy Family and the author of a book for parents by the same name. My husband and I have four kids, and we know firsthand the consequences of not making time to reconnect as a couple. That's why we’re fierce in our resolve to keep our relationship strong.
I knew we couldn't keep letting our conversations fizzle out. We needed a way to reconnect quickly at the end of the day even when we were both exhausted.
So I set out on a quest to find out which conversation topics for couples will actually make you feel closer, according to the latest research on happy relationships that stand the test of time.
We've been using these miracle questions for couples since our youngest was born. Anytime we sense a disconnect, we’ll grab a question and ask it. Instant connection, every time.
The questions force us to slow down, look each other in the eye, and really listen to each other.
Sure, sometimes we have to kick the kids outside or sneak away to the bedroom for a few minutes just to have a chance of being able to hear each other’s answers.
But that’s a small price to pay for keeping our marriage healthy and strong.
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I stand behind these couple conversation starters 100 percent. If you aren't completely satisfied within the first 30 days of purchasing, send me an email to let me know why it wasn't a good fit or you. I'll refund your purchase, no questions asked.